The dictionary defines compassion as, “A deep awareness of the suffering of another, coupled with the wish to relieve that suffering.” How do you teach someone to be compassionate? I’ve thought about this for quite a long time and I have come to learn that you can’t teach someone how to feel. Compassion is an act of emotion.
We make choices on how we feel about a particular subject from past experiences and our belief systems. I believe that we can only give what we have. When we have thoughts of ourselves it is difficult to think of another.
The following quote is from one of the greatest person’s who have lived their life in the service of others, Mother Teresa. ”Joy comes to those who in a sense forget themselves and become totally aware of the other “.
To understand those challenges faced by someone else takes courage, you must leave yourself behind. To not judge others is another way to show kindness for another human being. It’s a simple as this; you have an opportunity to help someone who is in need, for that I say be grateful. Wayne Dyer stated, “Being grateful helps remove the influence of our ego”.
I feel it an honor to assist others. As caregivers we all must have empathy, compassion, patience, dedication, and respect for the persons in our care. I believe caregivers must always remember it is an honor to tend to others. The simple acts of kindness we show while giving care will lessen that person’s suffering or unhappiness.
Louette
